also read - being unfair to DESTINY...:)

 the word DESTINY gives you a nice warm feeling ...but it doesn't take long for that picture to change...
      at times, i feel ..we are too unfair to it..because destiny...like i understand ,is the events that will necessarily happen with a person{good or bad}...but many of us don't remember about it,unless its remarkably a great achievement  ...but the moment things,start going against our way,even a little bit....we soon change it to FATE..and start complaining about it and if its really bad,curses are never far away, like that is the only reason responsible for our miseries
     but dont think many have the right to complain,only at their bad times

having an personal experience of spending, more than a year in depression,guess can say..what had made me to,feel the same way?  retrospecting , i realize..apart from the obvious reasons of disappointments ,having had the accident .and then the consequent life,which felt like HELL ...when life came to a virtual standstill when it was moving at 60 km/hr and being in the house  whole day and not knowing if ever i could see the world,in the same color..when these things added with the fact that, the very people,whom i really was counting on,decided to leave..that time i felt relieved to, curse my fate

but now its different ,in fact  after my days of depression...and even after having spent the past 4 and 1/2 years isolated inside my home,and still having difficulty walking  ..but if seeing my plight,if now anyone blames/curses my fate..i react with a smile because, can't tell them, what they are seeing is fun for me and the life am leading is a pleasure too ,and am enjoying it , NO spending 24 hrs in a day, 7 days a week for the past 4 and 1/2 years is not something a overactive person will like and i hate every small bit of it..

but deep down in my heart,i know for a fact that...i never complained when things were going right for me..be it for the cool life or for the people around, who seemed nice at that point in time or for the close shaves i might have had,before..
        then what right, do i have to curse destiny,if just for once, it took a bad turn...no matter as a result of it,i couldn't see/walk well or use my arm and as a result of it,i don't have, many people around

the thing i had to understand was that, things could have been a lot worse,as now i can see,walk,use my arm but only that, i couldn't use them well and just to be grateful, for that fact,because i don't know what i would have done without them

but i believe, it is LIFE .... DESTINY is just the trail, on which..one travels, afterall...
             “It is our CHOICES ,that determines our DESTINY  "


                                                                  - DEEPAK DEVARAJAN