also read - LAUGH IT OUT

Many dont see laughter, as important and wont even consider to acknowledge by laughing ,if they had seen or heard anything funny and will try and suppress this urge,as much as, they could.May be they feel it would look too silly or childish enough,if others may see them laugh ,but there are others who dont leave any opportunity to laugh about at the slightest glimpse of one

A closer introspection of where i belonged? revealed  a little different answer to that question,as i sure laughed a lot, but there was more to that,it was about not wanting to buckle down and proving to myself that i was not bogged down by the tough circumstances, that i will change myself from that of before, that freak accident.. and was also not willing,to let anything affect that fun aspect of my nature.

the past sure has not been an ideally a good one,that i would have wanted to remember,.but the future seemed, full of opportunities,the present certainly was not a joy ride but that didn't mean that i be unhappy and  worried, and take out the fun quotient, out of my life...afterall laughter sure adds LIFE to your years

laughing it out or trying to find reasons to laugh about,sure has helped, keep my cool..because when i try to look back, into the not too distant past,as to what all i have been through, these years,i credit my sanity to the fact that i always tried to laugh & also have tried  to find reasons to laugh about,even if its nothing too significant

its not as if i could laugh, because i have no worries,like the reason many at times, give.But laughing it out, is not entirely dependent on the situation,that one is dealt with...a major part of that is about ,character..because its never easy to have, even a smile when you are in pain,but if you can,that shows how much tough you are..its doesn't mean,if you get worried ,so you don't qualify to be tough .Worrying comes natural,even to the toughest, but the ability to snap out of that worried state,could be the deciding factor

on a personal level a decent chunk of my sanity has also to be credited to the fact that whenever i could,i would devote my time watching television shows or movies which were humorous in nature,that really got my mind out of the hard realities of my personal life.

the thing i deeply miss though,is the fact that, i can't quickly form a humorous statement out of the flaws in the statements the other person made in a conversation,which had been my habit,since long.but as an aftermath of this accident, my speech has been affected,and when i try to do the same thing again now, people dont get the joke as my voice clarity is deeply affected and then i would have to explain the joke,to them and nothing kills the humor in a joke,more than you requiring to explain it.but even after knowing this fact,can't seem to stop myself.People look good, when they smile,and i guess its worth the effort,in trying to make them..:)

There is also this fact of LIFE,that i have realized,more-so now,and it being..the probability of people missing and remembering someone who was very serious in nature, drastically reduces, than a person who is full of life and who likes to spread joy, laughter and happiness,if anytime they are not in the picture for a while or forever.So there is a reason more, for all those people,who hold back laughter,to let it free and its not soo difficult,as some might perceive...it to be

so, RELAX ...& laugh it out....
             the time at "present" in your life,is only a sure reality so,
                                              make it a real present for you..and SPREAD JOY